Earn Me...Mind, Body, & Heart

Finally - a healthy relationships program that focuses on dating, love, and all kinds of related subjects that don’t get enough airtime at schools across the nation. We might live in a sex-obsessed culture, but when do we talk about passion? Or intimacy? Or how to build a relationship that can stand the test of time? These important topics are things that are rarely discussed among adults, much less among young people learning to navigate serious relationships in a university or college environment.

Dedicated to healthy relationships

Loving Right focuses on these topics, addressing the differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships, understanding how we each feel loved, and communicating on a deeper level to build a relationship that has the strength to withstand life’s challenges.

This program also includes our sexual health module and the SENSE model for evaluating relationships and negotiating consent. Each talk is different, customized for your student body’s specific needs, answering the tough questions posed by your students, and always inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations.

Learning Objectives

Our Loving Right program has a series of learning objectives we seek to achieve in order to help empower your students. We would like them to be able to:

Gain insight as to how people are currently learning about sex and relationships.
Develop an understanding of the four pillars of Healthy Relationships and how they apply to their world.
Become confident on how to communicate what they need to feel loved, and learn what their partner’s love languages are and how to satisfy them.
Become an expert at negotiating consent using the Pre-Sex Talk.
Become comfortable sharing intimate information with a partner and creating a plan for communicating how they experience pleasure, their current health status, and any other pertinent information.
Gain a clear understanding about consent, alcohol and consent, Title IX, and how to prevent sexual violence.
Recognize signs of unhealthy relationships, with an emphasis on behaviors that have the potential to spiral into physical violence. Learn to step in.
Become empowered to recognize unhealthy dating behaviors among friends and apply different ways of taking action to reduce a friend’s risk.
Develop an understanding about the fluidity of sexual orientation and gender identity and how to connect with marginalized members of their campus community.
Become more confident when making relationship choices, whether to date, become more serious, or decide to marry.

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“Experts on love and relationships, Dr. Joni Frater and Esther Lastique have put together an informative yet entertaining “how to guide” on healthy and safe relationships for today’s young adult.

Loving Right: Earn Me Mind, Body & Heart was presented to Kansas State University this past spring and our students literally “loved it”. Esther and Joni are not your average adults lecturing students on the do’s and don’ts of sex and relationships, they prefer to bring realistic situations into an open conversation and guide students through the difficult parts by preparing them mentally and emotionally.

Providing evidence based facts and showing them the potential benefits and consequences of their actions kept our students engaged in conversation and asking these Sexperts plenty of questions. Dr. Joni Frater and Esther Lastique are extremely knowledgeable in the diversity of sexuality, whether it is sexual and reproductive health, gender identity, sexual orientation- and more- this dynamic duo will cover every topic and keep you laughing throughout their entire presentation. Loving Right is definitely a presentation you won’t want to miss.”

- Charlisa Molemohi, Health Educator, Kansas State University